Unresolved Childhood Pain Points Impact Sex/Porn Addictions

By Eddie Capparucci, LPC, CSAS, CSCP

You may think the bullying you endured in middle school is far behind you. Or the insults hurled by your mother are a thing of the past. Or the beatings you took from your older sibling have been long forgotten. Unnoticed Child

But that may not be the case. In fact, a large majority of individuals who struggle with sexual or pornography addictions have unresolved childhood pain points that still haunt them today.

They encountered negative events that activated suppressed memories of children’s emotional, mental, or physical distress. Although the pain endured was bad enough, what made the situation worse is caregivers did not comfort these individuals in their time of need. For many reasons, parents were not emotionally available to help soothe the distress and teach that the pain would not last forever.

Instead, these children had to face traumatic events alone and their solution to dealing with the distress was to not think about the situation. And to accomplish this, they learned to distract themselves with too much television, food, or fantasy. With this defense mechanism, they had entered the beginning phase of what would become behaviors that lead to addictions.

The following is part one of a two-part interview that details how the Inner Child uses our childhood pain points to drive our sexual or pornography addictions.

https://www.apowergreaterthan.com/listen/2020/6/26/episode-125-what-the-inner-child-sees-part-one-with-eddie-capparucci