I have always been of the mindset it is easier to help a betrayer learn to manage his problematic sexual behaviors than it is to get him to help his partner heal. It’s sad, but true. This re-post is one all betrayers should read in order to better understand what their suffering partner is going through as they work to heal. I have never read a better description of the emotional and mental anguish as described by Michelle Mays, LPC, CSAT-S. After you have read this, please pass it on.

The Cycle of Ambivalence